This column seeks to demystify the issue of sex being a taboo subject among us Nigerian and Africans. It will feature regular sex tips and sex advice for women from our resident expert, Iheoma Obibi of My Intimate Pleasures Shop.
Dear Ronke: Hahahaha! Nothing to risqué! So no bondage and wipes then! I can suggest a dirty weekend for two with scented candles, spend time getting appropriate lingerie for yourself to set the scene, not forgetting board and card games. Remember your body is not as it was when you first got married so your sexual needs may have changed and so has his. Do not forget to do all the niceties at home such as shaving the pubic region before you go away. There are chocolate nipple tassels and edible condoms that all can be eaten off – as long as you are both not diabetic – but I’m sure you get the drift. There is just so much to choose from and I would suggest that you visit www.myintimatepleasureshop.com for more ideas. Remember to pack your contraceptives. — Iheoma Obibi